"The Words With The Word" written by Carol Anne Renai Starr

Whether a negative disagreeable opinion is expressed or held inside; it will always and forever be a part of the person who possesses it; unless he himself or she herself decides to change their way of thinking on their own. They have to do it themselves! Nobody can force them to; and there is absolutely no amount of anger, curse words, humiliation, insults, or physical blows that anyone can dish out and direct towards them that will somehow stop them from feeling the way that they feel.... Neither are you solving anything or helping someone else when you threaten them or tell them not to say what they wanna say because that is not going to magically make their emotions disappear and it won't make the slightest bit of difference! It might satisfy you and other people when you do not have to listen to their negativity, but it is still very much alive within that person; even if or while they are being completely silent... Plus it is still eating them up to the point where they desperately need to get it out of their system before they explode! As a wise friendly suggestion; it might not be such a bad idea to allow the pessimistic people to release their bitterness and their hatred; rather than cutting them off or faulting them. Taking the time to mentally process their words; will help us listeners figure out the story behind what they are saying and try to reason with them and encourage them to change their terrible mindset!!